Keep your heart with all vigilance, for from it flow the springs of life. Proverbs 4:23 Pornography. Adultery. Financial strain. Prodigal children. Workaholics. Addiction. Stress. Fear. Insecurities. Doubts. Past history. The battle for keeping our marriages in tact isn’t easy. And the truth is, marriages rarely fall apart because of one big thing … marriages collapse because we haven’t paid attention to all the little things. Often, we neglect those small ways of encouraging one ... [Read More]

The fear of the Lord is the beginning of knowledge; fools despise wisdom and instruction. Proverbs 1:7 If there is one thing I have learned after nearly 19 years of marriage, it’s this: I don’t know. I don’t know the right answers. Sometimes I don’t even know the right questions. I don’t know how to do it all. I don’t know if I want to be able to anyway. I don’t know why some days everything gets on my nerves. I don’t know how to keep the laundry caught up. I don’t know how to make ... [Read More]

Bless the Lord, O my soul, and all that is within me, bless His holy name! Psalm 103:1 Sometimes we look around and only see what is missing. We forget how much God has given us and how full our lives truly are. As a couple, it is important for us to speak truth into each other’s lives. As we pray for each other and for our marriages, one of the important things we need to remember is to praise God. Praise comes from a grateful heart … a deep recognition of the ways God provides and protects ... [Read More]

For You, O Lord, are my hope; my trust, O Lord, from my youth. Psalm 71:5 Scott and I have been married almost 19 years. Like most married couples, we have faced difficult times. Some of the hardest situations have included: Three years of infertility. His father passing away unexpectedly. Scott’s diagnosis of ITP which involved many hospitalizations, brain hemorraghes, and several days on life support. Watching helplessly as the marriages of several couples we were close to fell ... [Read More]