{Dear Teri, Love Teri} An Index

My desire to write this series was born from watching moms who are younger than I am straining and stressing to do and achieve and promote and make themselves known.  They make me tired.   I hurt for them.  I want to encourage these sweet souls to slow down, to let go of the expectations and the plan sometimes.  I want to tell them that it's okay NOT to know how to pray or even what's for lunch. I'm very average.  I have a unique gifting and calling and I long to live in those ... but I am ... [Read More]

{Dear Teri, Love Teri} For the Years Ahead

Dear Teri, We've reached the end of these letters, at least for now.  Your girl is twelve and she is beautiful, inside and out.  Don't lose sight of that in the months and years ahead. I know you tire of others who tell you how bad the teenage years can be.   The next few years will be filled with challenges you cannot even imagine right now.    That's one reason why it is so important that you treasure every day.   Laugh with her, get to know her friends, and make memories. But know ... [Read More]

{Dear Teri, Love Teri} Sometimes It’s Scary

Dear Teri, I was thinking about the day they let you bring that eight-pound wad of beautiful baby girl home.  You and Scott fought that morning, remember?  You were upset because you had to wear maternity clothes home.  He said you  were beautiful and that it was time to go.  You cried. You didn't really know why you were crying but you just couldn't stop.  Every nerve ending tingled with more emotion than you could name.  Every synapse in your brain was firing a thousand thoughts of fear and ... [Read More]

{Dear Teri, Love Teri} Your Gift is Your Story

Dear Teri, Over the next two weeks, you're going to be writing letters to yourself, your younger self.  Letters that you hope will encourage other moms.  Letters that you believe will offer grace to the messy houses, weary bodies, and even the broken hearts.  Letters you pray will bless those who are knee deep in the trenches of midnight feedings, terrible twos, and navigating the tweens. When the Lord laid this idea on your heart, you were scared.  You didn't think you had anything new or ... [Read More]

10 Words Mommas Need to Remember

It's a tough row to hoe, this momma-ing gig.  Some days I just feel like throwing in the towel.  You?  {Please say you understand that feeling ... it took every ounce of bravery I have to admit it and I'm terrified that no one else knows how I feel.  So, help a girl out and say that you've realized you are not always up to the task of raising these children God has given you.} I turned 40 this past October and while it was not as earth-shatttering to my ego as turning 20 was, I confess ... [Read More]

The Husband’s Favorites: Day 3 {On Praying for Him}

{What a gift to read Scott's words about why he chose this post as one of his favorites.  And what a joy to pray for my husband every day.} Today I am thankful to have a wife that prays for me and not just praying for what she wants me to be. But instead, Teri Lynne faithfully prays Scripture for me to be shaped into the image of Christ. This post several years ago was a huge encouragement to me. ~ Scott Praying for Him For thirteen years I have had the honor of traveling life’s road ... [Read More]